2011年12月5日 星期一

Best saturaday

The last sunday was a day of joy. Different with typical saturaday where we will lazily lying at home or getting into the shopping crowd, me and you have been to the inspirational lake with a bunch of good friends.

A little bit surreal - with the environment made me a bit reminiscent of the european trip – sunny, cloudless, pearl blue sky, each group brought food to share, run and chase in the comfortable lawn, soaked in the warmth from the sun.

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2011年11月27日 星期日

dream with magic

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It’s a great day with you.

Though it’s not the first time I have been there, I enjoy being there. Simply when we arrived at the park we were all into the mood of joy.

Magic.

2011年11月25日 星期五

it was lucky , it was unlucky at the same time

it’s 2200 , I am staying at home after another night shift, still feeling the sore of last night. A bit different with previous 10 hours, yesterday night shift was especially tired and I felt it at work. It was not about the severity of cases – usually I don’t feel it at work cause I know I am doing something I should do. It was not about my shift partner, cause she’s been very independent. For unknown reason it’s some belief stemmed long ago in mind start growing and overwhelmed my emotion.

The world has always been crazy, and i just felt how crazy it was yesterday night.

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2011年11月12日 星期六

It was the case of my life

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Not many times in your life you can encounter a scenario when a second can be too vital to people’s life, when you have the time to press the button of defribillation button.

I was lucky. I was just like being called to the patient and witnessed ‘the scenario’. I pressed the button.

He was now in the coronary care unit. Conscious, sinus rhythm.

2011年10月31日 星期一

to those who are the supervisors of my girlfriend, fuck you !

what's the point of driving one to work all day long solely as a relief of your fucking anger or dissatisfaction ?!

2011年10月27日 星期四

Germany 2011

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Already the 5thl, but it’s a bit different in the way I travelled, And for the book, it’s my favourite book cover. 

Will show more ~

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just a phase I read–intellectual currency

When it came to the very end of a day, while I was waiting for her to unplug the computer to sleep I had several minutes of flipping through a book. Just a book with thoughts sharing, but i was already impressed with How Tyler Brule mentioned ‘intellectual currency’.

This was just what I , or most of the same aged group lack. You can’t get it short-term, it’s something you need to pay your time and effort into experience, learning, reading.

Do you possess any of such currency ?

2011年10月24日 星期一

Tao & Yiu’s wedding

 

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It is already 2 days after Tao & Yiu’s wedding when I started to write something back for the wedding on Saturday. The reasons are simple – first, Manutd just got the worst defeat to ManCity (I could not refrain myself from throwing things again); And Second, the rather explainable one, is I am just able to recover from the wedding physically (never in my life I have worn the formal suit for the whole day) and thus, let the memory condense to something I can write it out.

I wasn’t a guest to participate in the wedding. Instead, I was very honoured to be selected as Tao’s ‘brother’ and also the driver for the wedding, which turns out providing me a different angle to this wedding, and of course, lots of first time experiences.

I was the driver for the wedding already a day in advance to Wong’s wedding, as I was responsible to carry Tao’s family from Tuen Mun to Tao’s new home early in the morning of wedding day. I chose to arrive a day earlier, which in turn I had double ‘1st time experience’ – a driver, and risked my life to sleep with Tao WITHOUT wingwing’s permission; And when the day continues I was then responsible to carry the filming and photoshooting crew. It’d be easy if they were not shooting when travelling, but in fact it wasn’t – I drove just like the those who were filming in the street, with hands-free talking with the couple’s car on how to drive, while at the same time being instructed to be ‘slower, faster, closer…. ‘ for good angle to shoot and tape.

Yet, when comparing the duty of driver to ‘brother’, I can say being a ‘brother’ is even more challenging to a zero-experience person like me. That’s why in a wedding so many ‘brothers’ and ‘sisters’ are needed, as there is always something surprising to be handled, e.g. being asked to strip for push up, or trivial details e.g. confirmation of wedding dinner tables, smooth video playing. It was lucky that on that day things went smooth, although we might haven’t captured every touching moments that made guests e.g. Sunnie, wingwing or my sister sobbed.

Yet if I was asked again to choose between working crew or guest to enjoy the wedding, considering it as privilege, it’d still be the driver and brother. After all, it’s still nice to watch in the TV downstairs to say ‘I do’.

2011年10月14日 星期五

love what you do

no doubt till now what I am doing is just those i love to do. I cherish it a lot .

2011年9月21日 星期三

it is busy, yet it is awesome

As the school term starts it implies i have to live with two identities for the coming 2 years. One being as an Registered Nurse – a forth year so called experienced nurse relative to the ward averagae nurses’ experience. And further advanced to other nurse is that I have to do a bit more on supervision work on specific care, which includes a never-end research.

The other identity for me is somehow quite useful for my work – a student of cardiology. People said when I have completed this course we are able to fulfill the identity of being a cardiologist…. which LOOKS like a big name to me. Yet such fame is never a consideration intially – I chose this simply for quest of knowledge.

The combination of above identities must be making a large part of my life in coming days, but i am feeling a bit more energetic than before. I just feel good of the full use of my time.

2011年9月9日 星期五

What’s more from HK ?

When Swire properties is building the Opus, the  building to be completed in 2012, there are two landmarks: 1. It is going to be attractive in terms of the structure with the idea of Frank Gehry ; 2. It is going to be be attractive in terms of the rent being set to be most highest in HK. But to most of the HongKongers, neither of it is going to give us any pride.

It does not belong to HK.

2011年7月26日 星期二

Free yourself

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Have been to kayak with superb weather.

Had the best nap of the year.

Love the freedom of going to any island you want. Unplug from the world, it is the best remedy to the busy world.

2011年7月12日 星期二

2009 , rewind…..

Looked back the photos and all the memories of 2009 came back, lingered in my mind.
It was a great year. Lots of fun, lot of people met. March0904

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2011年7月10日 星期日

life experience

learned from some unforgettable mistakes these days.

Admit the error, Remember the error, no more error.

2011年6月27日 星期一

something about Germany

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I do have good travel every time and Germany 2011 makes no exception.
Getting a life different with the one you have everyday during travel is a very important component of a good travel. Forget, immerse into the atmosphere of exotic /picturesque / natural environment, getting a little bit hyper with beer, oh what the hell, what a great life it is.

While my mind was staggering in the scence of sunset in Wurzburg, I just can’t wait for another great time somewhere out of Hong Kong.

2011年5月31日 星期二

25 | 26

Days counting down for 25 with time marching on towards 26. I do have a tendency to look back how I am doing, and i am lucky to say I have actually fulfilled my little aim, the remaining time is now for consolidating it.

26 , consolidation of my little aim.

2011年5月4日 星期三

Self dialogue

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1: it seems you are way too silent. What’s the problem?

2. I don’t know. I just don’t want to move.

1: What’s the thing that moves you before ? Where are they ?

2: They are stiil there, but they are not that significant to my life. Things are changing in the way I don’t like. Distraction, lots of distraction.

1: Weren’t they really that important before? or there are something else ?

2011年4月1日 星期五

Cal 2010

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Deep in your heart there must be something pushing your everyday.

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2011年3月21日 星期一

the happiness

Days have been transforming everyone, and me makes no exception.

the more you meet, the more you learn, the more you know how incompetent you are, the more you have to work harder.

happiness, from simply eating your favourite food, has transformed to another level.

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2011年3月16日 星期三

Work in Progress – monocle issue 41, vol 5, march 2011




Nuria Chinchilla is anti-siesta. It's 15.00 in Barcelona, the time when every shady bench is taken up by snoozing Catalans. But Chinchilla - a professor in the department of managing people in organisations at Navarra's IESE Business School - won't be sleeping; for she has more pressing concerns to discuss.

Chinchilla explains that the Spanish afternoon nap is actually a relic from the civil war-ravaged years of the 1930s. "It comes from a time when people were doing two jobs," she says. "Siesta culture does not fit with modern life. A two- or three-hour lunch is not family friendly; it means we are working too late. How can you expect people to function as mothers, fathers and husbands when they are working until nine at night? We need a different, more condensed day. But in Spain, culture is very slow to change."
In fact, the whole of the industrialised world has been slow to update the shape of its working day. In 1930 the economist John Maynard Keynes predicted that by the 21st century Europeans would enjoy a 15-hour week. He reasoned that with our sci-fi innovations and high wages, there would be no need for the 40-hour grind. But the pace of change has been glacial. In Europe, mean working hours did decrease until the 1970s, but then surged again in the 1980s, and now hover at around 37 hours a week. (In large parts of Europe, however, they are edging down.)
For all the talk of micro-jobs and "flexitime", the vast majority of the world's working population still follow a classic nine-to-five formula. EU data from 2010 also shows a cruel inversion: while hours stay more or less the same, work continues to get more intense and stressful. Computerised gadgetry, multi-tasking and modern target-driven management styles mean we pack more tasks into the working day. We've absorbed all the streamlining advancements, but stuck to a template of the past.
That's because the working week is entrenched in culture - from culinary rituals to religious work ethic - and is very difficult to shift. In Japan, where a long-hours malaise is endemic, several recent court rulings have resulted in big car giants such as Toyota paying out large sums to the wives of salaried men who officially died of karoushi (yes, they have a special word for "death from overwork") - but the punishingly industrious culture has been largely resistant to reform. The toxic mix of office politics, fierce company loyalty and peer pressure has turned work into an unshakable cult.
"People are nervous about leaving the office before others in the evening. No matter how pressing family commitments may be, nobody will leave before the boss," says Jenny Holt, a professor at Meiji University, Tokyo. "In some government offices it's usual to work until midnight or just sleep under your desk. Family life suffers, marriages end up as nothing more than two people sharing a house. [And] the population is plummeting - for obvious reasons."
Often half-hearted state interventions are a good indicator of how bad it's got. In South Korea, which has some of the longest working hours in the world at 2,316 a year (the German average is 1,141, according to figures from the International Labour Organization), the government has introduced a "procreation day", where managers snap out the lights in government offices at 19.00, telling their employees to go home and spend time with their families - or make them bigger. Should Europe worry that South Koreans are working fiendishly long hours while the French sip viognier over long lunches? The simple answer is no. Long hours are often connected in Europe with low productivity. Many wonder if, as productivity rises in Asian economies, working hours will come down. "Over time, as Korea's productivity rises they will get richer and buy more of everything they like, including leisure, so gradually they will tend to work fewer hours," says Donald Robertson, senior lecturer in macroeconomics and finance at Pembroke College, Cambridge.
But what if they catch up in technology and productivity and still choose to work super-long hours? That won't matter either, says OECD economist, Paul Swain. "In that case South Korea would end up with higher output per worker. But its society would choose a life with no free time or leisure. And no time to spend their wealth.
"Already, for instance, the French work a lot less than the Americans. [Both countries have very similar productivity scores.] So, they are a lot less affluent. But this is a cultural consensus in France. It is a lifestyle choice."
A country's working hours are often a result of a kind of national negotiation with its values. The Netherlands' low-hours culture (where men on average work 37 hours a week and women just 26) is linked to its conservative heritage and its distrust of paid-for childcare. "The Dutch have a traditional role for mothers which has become enshrined in law," says Jon Messenger, co-author of ILO publication Working Time Around the World. "Studies show that well over half of Dutch women work part-time hours. They've created rewarding, high-status part-time jobs. What's interesting here is that men are now starting to work part-time too."
Other cultures are more rigid. In fact, what's hailed as flexitime often means just a slight adjustment to the normal working rhythm. In the US (which clocks up an average of 1,792 hours a year) big firms and even civic authorities have had great success by tinkering, ever so slightly, with the nine-to-five formula. In one citywide trial in Houston, Texas, dubbed "Flex in the City", workers were asked to stagger their morning start time to reduce rush-hour traffic jams on commuter routes. The trial might have only made minuscule modifications to working life, but proved so successful it was found to slash workers' stress by 58 per cent.
But for many, the real meaning of "flex" is onerous multitasking or just unpaid overtime. This is especially true for women. Recent Finnish studies show that white-collar women found flexible regimes nearly four times more irksome than helpful.
Just as long hours don't always make for better productivity, flexible working hours don't always equal progress. "You could say that one of the tricks managers have played on us is flexibility," says Brendan Burchell, senior lecturer of sociology at Cambridge University. "They've created a very grey area. Even if trade unions did want to regulate this, it would be very difficult."
The workplace has reached a critical moment. Globalised, modern economies need to find a way to nurture a slick, competitive workforce without treating them like machines. The contagious buzz of frantic workaholism needs a firm hand. Managers need to discourage presenteeism and promote productive, healthy hours - a move which could be the key. This might even mean reintroducing a more languorous pace back into the office.
As the Texan study showed, a small amount of flexible time can go a long way - but that doesn't mean we should do away with the traditional nine-to-five paradigm. In many ways, working rhythms function to protect family and civic life. "There are good reasons we have these structures," says Burchell. "For a lot of things to work, like going to church or playing football on a Saturday afternoon, it involves people working at the same time. It would be a big mistake to assume we should have unlimited choice."
But where does this leave the 24-hour economy? As consumers get more and more demanding, unusual working hours may become inevitable. Unless anaemically-lit mini supermarkets are going to rule the world, shops may well have to extend their opening hours. The modern shopper wants to buy ingredients from a local grocer on the way home from work. In the future they may even want to buy a new suit at midnight. "If this trend continues, people working in service industry jobs such as shop assistants will be left very vulnerable," says Alexandra Beauregard, at LSE's department of management. "The care sector is geared towards nine-to-five. Will we need nurseries to open 24-hours a day?" Perhaps.
Without a nine-to-five framework flexi-workers only have their judgment - and a few steadfast national habits - between them and a constant stream of winking BlackBerries. Technology has created a dexterous workforce who can dice ingredients for their evening meal while checking their iPhones - but wise companies should reinstate the line between work and home. Some countries, such as food and drink- focused France, have more social ballast than others. "I've seen it in American films," adds the French Eurofound researcher, Agnès Parent-Thirion. "This 'having a sandwich at your desk'. For me, this is not eating. Most French people will always take time to sit down and have lunch."
Back in Barcelona, Professor Chinchilla has another cure for Spain's dilemma - shorter days altogether. She hails "family responsible" companies such as the energy giant Iberdrola, that recently restructured their working day to allow employees to go home at 15.30. "Immediately they found that absenteeism went down, as did accidents - and meanwhile productivity went up," she says. "Spanish people desperately want a more condensed day. They don't want to hang around for two hours at lunch. They want to be at home making sure their children are doing well at school and their marriages are in check."
Let's hope Chinchilla's condensed, family-friendly day doesn't backfire and leave Spaniards disgruntled and chomping a sandwich at their desks. — (M)

2011年2月14日 星期一

our first valentine’s day

 

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I love the way we celebrate. it’s way better than getting out for a dinner.

it’s a sweet sweet day.

2011年2月11日 星期五

Why can't we own the whole world ?

It's weird, but having a good times doesn't mean it's really good at all.

You cannot own all the good times. You need to sacrifice something which can also be good, yet less better, in return for a comparably better ones.

I don't mind losing something, but why can't we own the whole world? Are we destined not to ?

2011年2月6日 星期日

2011

I have always said 6 years is a maximum.
2011, 2 more years to go.

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2011年1月8日 星期六

Get more hurt

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‘Life is not about how much hurt you can give; Life is about how much hurt you can get’

Rocky Balboa

2011年1月3日 星期一

Forecast 2011: The perceived crime threat in Japan

January 2, 2011 — Tokyo
Writer: Fiona Wilson

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It was not just the news itself, but the sickening familiarity of it all: a Japanese bus station in the morning rush hour, buses jammed with passengers and a 27-year-old man with a knife. His motive remains obscure; his victims, so far as one can tell, were complete strangers to him. But by the time his stabbing rampage came to an end, 13 people had been injured, 11 of them schoolchildren.

As Japanese digested the news of the latest indiscriminate knife attack they were asking themselves how this kind of thing could happen – yet again. For the half century following the war, Japan prided itself on being the most law-abiding country in the industrialised world. In the last decade, every few months seem to bring new reports of motiveless brutality, often by alarmingly young people. The question prompted by the latest incident is not “what is wrong with him?” but “what is wrong with us?”

Various explanations are offered for this apparent surge in violence, most of them connected with the social changes which have taken place in post-war Japan. Two generations ago, Japanese children grew up in large extended families; today, families are smaller, and many children grow up alone and isolated. Commentators also point to the influence of Japan’s mania for gadgetry, saying it encourages young people to spend time alone with video games or to communicate via their mobile phones rather than meeting in person. Without friends or social skills, it is argued, many young people have no release except through violence.

But another news story a few hours before the bus station massacre reveals the so-called surge in violent crime is actually an illusion. Far from painting a picture of despondency and a crime-ridden future for Japan, it turns out the opposite is true. According to Japan’s National Police Agency, the number of recorded crimes has fallen to the lowest in 23 years.

Between January and November last year, 1,465,223 cases were reported during the period, down 6.9 per cent from the previous year, the eighth consecutive year in which crime has declined. Murders and attempted murders have also declined to record levels, with 988 cases in the first 11 months of last year, a 2.8 per cent decline.

Offences like muggings, burglary and drug dealing, which city dwellers in the rest of the world have learned to accept as part of everyday life, are between four and eight times lower than in the West. By every measure, Japan is the safest and least crime-ridden country on earth – and it is becoming safer every year.

“Young Japanese probably murder the fewest people of any youth worldwide,” Mariko Hasegawa, a professor of evolutionary biology at Tokyo’s Waseda University, has said. “It is because murders in general have become so unusual that cases involving people who seem to have personality disorders stand out.”

Japanese citizens, all the statistics say, have every reason to feel more secure in 2011. The epidemic which Japan faces is not one of crime itself, but the fear of crime, fuelled by the media.

It was not just the news itself, but the sickening familiarity of it all: a Japanese bus station in the morning rush hour, buses jammed with passengers and a 27-year-old man with a knife. His motive remains obscure; his victims, so far as one can tell, were complete strangers to him. But by the time his stabbing rampage came to an end, 13 people had been injured, 11 of them schoolchildren.

As Japanese digested the news of the latest indiscriminate knife attack, they were asking themselves how this kind of thing could happen – yet again. For the half century following the war, Japan prided itself on being the most law-abiding country in the industrialised world. In the last decade, every few months seem to bring new reports of motiveless brutality, often by alarmingly young people. The question prompted by the latest incident is not “what’s wrong with him?” but “what’s is wrong with us?”

Various explanations are offered for this apparent surge in violence, most of them connected with the social changes which have taken place in post-war Japan. Two generations ago, Japanese children grew up in large extended families; today, families are smaller, and many children grow up alone and isolated. Commentators also point to the influence of Japan’s mania for gadgetry, saying it encourages young people to spend time alone with video games or to communicate via their mobile phones rather than meeting in person. Without friends or social skills, it is argued, many young people have no release except through violence.

But another news story a few hours before the bus station massacre reveals the so-called surge in violent crime is actually an illusion. Far from painting a picture of despondency and a crime-ridden future for Japan, it turns out the opposite is true. According to Japan’s National Police Agency, the number of recorded crimes has fallen to the lowest in 23 years.

Between January and November last year, 1,465,223 cases were reported during the period, down 6.9 per cent from the previous year, the eighth consecutive year in which crime has declined. Murders and attempted murders have also declined to record levels, with 988 cases in the first 11 months of last year, a 2.8 per cent decline.

Offences like muggings, burglary and drug dealing, which city dwellers in the rest of the world have learned to accept as part of everyday life, are between four and eight times lower than in the West. By every measure, Japan is the safest and least crime-ridden country on earth – and it is becoming safer every year.

“Young Japanese probably murder the fewest people of any youth worldwide,” Mariko Hasegawa, a professor of evolutionary biology at Tokyo’s Waseda University, has said. “It is because murders in general have become so unusual that cases involving people who seem to have personality disorders stand out.”

Japanese citizens, all the statistics say, have every reason to feel more secure in 2011. The epidemic which Japan faces is not one of crime itself, but the fear of crime fuelled by the media.

2011年1月2日 星期日

Grasp the moment

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On the first night shift I had the worst (busiest) time for 3 years. Is there any implication of what I am going to have in the coming year – busy as hell ?

2010 was a year to expect, and i am quite sure that 2011 will be a year to give your best, because it’s a year of development. And I know it’s important to grasp the every moment to learn and grow.