Tao & Yiu’s wedding

 

It is already 2 days after Tao & Yiu’s wedding when I started to write something back for the wedding on Saturday. The reasons are simple – first, Manutd just got the worst defeat to ManCity (I could not refrain myself from throwing things again); And Second, the rather explainable one, is I am just able to recover from the wedding physically (never in my life I have worn the formal suit for the whole day) and thus, let the memory condense to something I can write it out.

I wasn’t a guest to participate in the wedding. Instead, I was very honoured to be selected as Tao’s ‘brother’ and also the driver for the wedding, which turns out providing me a different angle to this wedding, and of course, lots of first time experiences.

I was the driver for the wedding already a day in advance to Wong’s wedding, as I was responsible to carry Tao’s family from Tuen Mun to Tao’s new home early in the morning of wedding day. I chose to arrive a day earlier, which in turn I had double ‘1^st time experience’ – a driver, and risked my life to sleep with Tao WITHOUT wingwing’s permission; And when the day continues I was then responsible to carry the filming and photoshooting crew. It’d be easy if they were not shooting when travelling, but in fact it wasn’t – I drove just like the those who were filming in the street, with hands-free talking with the couple’s car on how to drive, while at the same time being instructed to be ‘slower, faster, closer…. ‘ for good angle to shoot and tape.

Yet, when comparing the duty of driver to ‘brother’, I can say being a ‘brother’ is even more challenging to a zero-experience person like me. That’s why in a wedding so many ‘brothers’ and ‘sisters’ are needed, as there is always something surprising to be handled, e.g. being asked to strip for push up, or trivial details e.g. confirmation of wedding dinner tables, smooth video playing. It was lucky that on that day things went smooth, although we might haven’t captured every touching moments that made guests e.g. Sunnie, wingwing or my sister sobbed.

Yet if I was asked again to choose between working crew or guest to enjoy the wedding, considering it as privilege, it’d still be the driver and brother. After all, it’s still nice to watch in the TV downstairs to say ‘I do’.

love what you do

no doubt till now what I am doing is just those i love to do. I cherish it a lot .

it is busy, yet it is awesome

As the school term starts it implies i have to live with two identities for the coming 2 years. One being as an Registered Nurse – a forth year so called experienced nurse relative to the ward averagae nurses’ experience. And further advanced to other nurse is that I have to do a bit more on supervision work on specific care, which includes a never-end research.

The other identity for me is somehow quite useful for my work – a student of cardiology. People said when I have completed this course we are able to fulfill the identity of being a cardiologist…. which LOOKS like a big name to me. Yet such fame is never a consideration intially – I chose this simply for quest of knowledge.

The combination of above identities must be making a large part of my life in coming days, but i am feeling a bit more energetic than before. I just feel good of the full use of my time.

What’s more from HK ?

When Swire properties is building the Opus, the  building to be completed in 2012, there are two landmarks: 1. It is going to be attractive in terms of the structure with the idea of Frank Gehry ; 2. It is going to be be attractive in terms of the rent being set to be most highest in HK. But to most of the HongKongers, neither of it is going to give us any pride.

It does not belong to HK.

Free yourself

Have been to kayak with superb weather.

Had the best nap of the year.

Love the freedom of going to any island you want. Unplug from the world, it is the best remedy to the busy world.

2009 , rewind…..

Looked back the photos and all the memories of 2009 came back, lingered in my mind.
It was a great year. Lots of fun, lot of people met.

life experience

learned from some unforgettable mistakes these days.

Admit the error, Remember the error, no more error.